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Facebook foibles

By Sarah Gee on Jun 2, 08 05:16 PM in Lifestyle

Paul Dale's Iron Angle last week got me thinking: are we a generation which is too reliant on on-line communications?

Certainly the foibles of Facebook have tripped up a few people. I know of several people who are desperate to leave their jobs, courtesy of the aforesaid 'social utility', along with exactly what they think of their bosses and their organisations. Let's just say it's not exactly positive. If I can stumble across this info, think how much damage could be done by someone looking for dirt/gossip/reasons to dismiss someone.

Fellow blogger Stef Lewandowski has also identified Facebook stalking as a source of confusion. You know the kind of thing. You bump into someone who says "Have you cheered up now? How's your cold?" when you haven't seen them for weeks. The penny drops. They are a Facebook friend and have been watching your status line.

And now the tide seems to be turning against Facebook, with people moving on Twitter, Bebo, or whatever the site of the moment is, saying that "Facebook is just so last year". Well OK, when you realise that you're no longer the oldest person in your network then maybe the 'cool factor' of Facebook does start to wane.

But I for one would miss the cupcakes and inter-continental Scrabble games, along with the feeling of being in touch with old friends through their status lines. Those few words give such an insight into a person's psyche that I'm sure there will be a PhD thesis on these lines soon. From the sadness of a friend trying to sell her wedding dress on ebay (unused - her husband to be jilted her 6 weeks before the Big Day) to the daily updates on marathon training and associated painful injuries, these vignettes have become part of my daily life.

And although I won't be doing the same, please everyone don't hold back on the dodgy dancing videoclips from ski-ing holidays, ubder-bitchy comments about colleagues, or details of your latest conquest (particularly when you give such fullsome details). They really cheer up my morning coffee break.

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